This guide provides relational approaches to managing behaviour. Within the guide there is understanding of why children can display challenging behaviour, including what research and cognitive science say. It also includes practical approaches to implement. It also provides useful templates to support the child in reflecting upon their behaviour, but also to support the adult dealing with the behaviour to reflect upon their actions. This guide is jampacked with useful strategies to implement into every day practice and support adult’s understanding of why children display such behaviours.